I’ve arrived!

I was checking my email when I saw the following message with the subject line: Absolutely Narcissism.com.

At first, I was like, “Ok! Here we go! Fame at last!”

However, the message read::

Huh? Are you for real, eh? This site is nothing but a bunch of babble? What’s your point? Oh, there isn’t any. Surely you have better things to do with your time.

Now I’m sure the object of the message was to make me feel badly.
But clearly, if the sender had bothered to read a few of my posts, he -yes it was a he- would have quickly discovered that my ego is such that this kind of attention would only serve to further morph it into an entity of monster proportions.

Because really, if he felt that my content was really just a bunch of babble and here we have the token alliteration he could have said so on the comments in my blog.
Instead though, Mr.What’s-Your-Point took the time to backtrack to my profile page in order to get my email address, went to his email account, and composed a message especially for me.
Just for me.
Awwwwww…I’m warm and fuzzy now.

I’m pretty sure this means I’m famous too.

Because I know that when I stumble upon a blog that I find uninteresting or unworthy of feedback, I simply close out.
Taking the time to compose an email telling said blogger that I found his/her material uninspired and boring would take away from my time reading bloggers that I do enjoy.

However, in response to the concerned, kind sir’s question about whether or not I have better things to do, let me just say this:
At the end of the day, after…

I’ve spent the day in nursing classes

watched several hours of educational televised programming with my daughter
played a rousing game of Scrabble with my kids

spent quality time with my husband

…caught up on my favourite blogs

…and worked out for an hour

…quite frankly, no. No, I don’t have better things to do with my time.

And as a result of the fact that, according to this gentleman’s opinion, I have no life, people who actually take the time to send this kind of message to me…to my very own email address, only serve to give me further inspiration and fodder.

So thank you Mr.What’s-Your-Point, because before reading your email, I had absolutely no idea what to write about for my next post.

I would have been reduced to reposting pictures of my husband scratching his butt.

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124 Responses to I’ve arrived!
  1. Misfit Mommy (aka the Antichrist)
    January 20, 2011 | 6:46 am

    LMAO Only a fellow blogger would understand than an asshat sending messages like that means that even if he didn't like it, he actually read it, and took the time to respond.
    Readers that don't like me? That's great – you stil read it!
    Readers that take the time to send and email?? Even bette!

  2. Mumstrosity
    January 20, 2011 | 7:04 am

    ahaha what moron. Apparently the 1,038 followers you have only vistit to lookat the pretty colours, becausethe contents total shit. ;)

    Can't wait to start getting emails like this :D

  3. StephanieC @ Seriously?? Really? Seriously?
    January 20, 2011 | 7:11 am

    Dammit, what's your secret (besides no tear-enducing tributes to your belated best-fur-friend in the world)?

    I am not even popular enough for trolls. I supposed I should be happy, but, alas I am not.

    Whatever, just send the guy a photo of you in those metallic leggins with those freakin' sweet heels. That'll shut him up. lol.

    Keep on rockin' 'em baby….

  4. SkippyMom
    January 20, 2011 | 7:22 am

    The thing that stuns me the most [and I don't use the word "stun" lightly] is that you take time to comment on everyone's blog and you have freaking over a 1000 followers.

    I never expect you to come to my part of the world. I am happy with my little pond – but when you leave a comment – I get a huge smile and think: “What -does this b*tch not have something better to do then ogle me in a pink sweatsuit”

    You rock Sandra. But can you please stop shaming us with the slap ass, tight abs posts.

    You are giving us all a complex.

    WE LOVE YOU! Hope you know that.

    It is universal.

    Dork boy is just jealous. And junk impaired.

  5. Amanda
    January 20, 2011 | 7:32 am


  6. Marla
    January 20, 2011 | 7:43 am

    You have a bazillion followers AND you get hate mail?


  7. Deborah
    January 20, 2011 | 8:02 am

    LOL … perfect! (I hope he comes back to read this!) :o )

  8. Myya
    January 20, 2011 | 8:12 am

    What an idiot !! It is beyond me when I hear about people complaining about a blog. If you don't like it – don't read it…DUH! You totally are famous you know :)

  9. Not So Simply Single
    January 20, 2011 | 8:36 am

    * * *
    Oh, Sandra, the dull ones are the ones who have to degrade those around them. Furthermore, you are a riot, quite brilliant, and very industrious to find time to blog with YOUR schedule!….

    The sad sap is getting attention this way, and lots of it. Ignore the bastard and enjoy the favor of all the ones that love ya honey! Your “bunch of babble” attracts lots of groupies, so revel in that bliss. Maybe we should slap his dumb ass…

    The best is yet to come…

    Lisa in Maui

  10. DysFUNctional Mom
    January 20, 2011 | 8:37 am

    WOOHOO, you've made it! Ha.
    I mean it's not like you sell yourself as a political blog or a world events blog, and then talk about goofy stuff. You blog about life….and like I told you before, you're obviously doing something right!

  11. boycottamericanwomen
    January 20, 2011 | 8:50 am

    Why American men should boycott American women


    I am an American man, and I have decided to boycott American women. In a nutshell, American women are the most likely to cheat on you, to divorce you, to get fat, to steal half of your money in the divorce courts, don't know how to cook or clean, don't want to have children, etc. Therefore, what intelligent man would want to get involved with American women?

    American women are generally immature, selfish, extremely arrogant and self-centered, mentally unstable, irresponsible, and highly unchaste. The behavior of most American women is utterly disgusting, to say the least.

    This blog is my attempt to explain why I feel American women are inferior to foreign women (non-American women), and why American men should boycott American women, and date/marry only foreign (non-American) women.


  12. lyndylou
    January 20, 2011 | 9:04 am

    ha ha ha really funny!!! The guy sounds like a total idiot! Did he not realise you would use it as fuel for the fire??

    You rock, your posts always make me laugh or just plain jealous!

  13. Vodka Logic
    January 20, 2011 | 9:10 am

    and he has garnered all these comments as well.. He should be proud.

    We should all thank him for your amusing post that was supposed to make you feel bad

    [the verification word is dissings... lol ]

  14. Mamma has spoken
    January 20, 2011 | 10:09 am

    I think it was BoycottAmericanWomen who sent you the email. Too bad he doesn't realize that you aren't American ;o)
    Wonder how many followers he has but I'm boycotting him.

  15. Thisisme.
    January 20, 2011 | 10:15 am

    What a plonker! Him, not You!!! At least you got a really good post out of it though. Every cloud has a silver lining and all that!!!

  16. Nicky
    January 20, 2011 | 10:23 am

    Um…could you forward me his email? I need someone who hates me that much.

  17. Mrsblogalot
    January 20, 2011 | 10:38 am

    HA! You'll show him when you make your own network (-:

  18. Canadianbloggergirl
    January 20, 2011 | 10:42 am

    Listen here Mr. What's Your Point, my girl Sandra here is a sure thing to get you laughing. If you don't like her, get off her. Obviously you have a crush, cause you sent her a love note!

    Sandra you're awesome!


  19. @ly
    January 20, 2011 | 10:45 am

    What an idiot….I, like you, just exit out if not interested. Some people are just never happy unless they are pissing on others parades! Ignore him!

  20. Polly
    January 20, 2011 | 10:45 am

    That is freaking hilarious.

  21. Snuggle Wasteland
    January 20, 2011 | 11:05 am

    I will never understand why people send these kinds of emails. And it happens much more than some bloggers are aware.

    You're fabulous, darling! Don't let the trolls get you down.

  22. Gigi
    January 20, 2011 | 11:18 am

    I'm with you – if I stumble across a blog that holds no interest for me – I quietly click away. No harm, no foul. I don't understand why people feel the need to be so hateful.

    Oh well, ignore him. Obviously, you have plenty of people who do like what you write.

  23. Flying high in the sky....
    January 20, 2011 | 11:27 am

    don't pay attention to such aberrations… probaby somebody is jealous of your blog's success…. your posts are humourous and they always come with some take-aways…. you have a brilliant blog!!

  24. Gigi
    January 20, 2011 | 11:47 am

    obviously he doesn't get the concept of Laugh Your Ass Off Funny.

  25. Nicole
    January 20, 2011 | 12:04 pm

    What an ass. I do think it's a mark of your fame. Only the successful get the hate, baby.

  26. myevil3yearold
    January 20, 2011 | 12:23 pm

    I'm jelous. I don't get hate mail.

  27. Mommie Dearest Strikes Again
    January 20, 2011 | 12:59 pm

    What an idiot. I thik HE is the one who doesn't have a life. As you said, when I don't care for a blog I just move along to the next one. To take the time to look up your email address and send his little love note implies not only that HE is actually the one who has no life, but that he also cares enough about what you wrote to write to you. Even if he did express it with a sad and pathetic back-handed compliment.

    And anyway – wasn't Seinfeld one of the highest rated television shows ever? And wasn't it a show about…nothing?

    You rock.

  28. ChiTown Girl
    January 20, 2011 | 1:19 pm

    It takes all kinds to make the world go 'round, I guess. What an assbag!!

  29. Mrs. Hyde
    January 20, 2011 | 1:20 pm

    Apparently, HE is the one who has nothing better to do with his time. Asshole.

    a bitch called mom

  30. Raquel's World
    January 20, 2011 | 1:24 pm

    Wow- thank you sir for your opinion. Does he have nothing better to do than read your blog? Does he have a blog? Who is he?

    Anyways I and many others enjoy your blog. He's a hater.

  31. Dee
    January 20, 2011 | 1:24 pm

    You handled that really well…He was more than likely jealous and was wondering why he could not get more followers to his blog.

  32. Blasé
    January 20, 2011 | 1:46 pm

    I never say things like that when I email any of my followers. I'm usually asking them for a 'date' and things of that nature…

    Btw, if you need to bury your face in my lap and cry your lil' heart out over his comment…I'm here for you.

    oh Yeah, Baby!

  33. Blasé
    January 20, 2011 | 1:48 pm

    ..oh yeah,

    and I agree with whatever Lisa/LL said. She is ONE smart Cookie!

  34. nitebyrd
    January 20, 2011 | 1:49 pm

    Amazing! You ARE famous! You've now got your own asshole contingent. Well done, woman!

  35. CB
    January 20, 2011 | 1:51 pm

    Don't you just looooove asstards like that???

    I must admit though… I'd rather get them through email than on comments like all my hate mail has been!!!

    Just means we kick ass!

  36. Jill
    January 20, 2011 | 1:57 pm

    Good for you! You stick it to him

  37. onemixedbag.com
    January 20, 2011 | 2:00 pm

    Wow! Your famous and I'm proud to say that I read you. I may not comment as often as I should, but I do read.

    I think he is a frustrated blogger talking about living with his mom, playing dungeons and dragons and masturbating. He has a following of three, Mom, and his two dungeon and dragon buddies. He is just bitter.

    It was nice of him to give you something to write about. Very thoughtful. :)

  38. suz
    January 20, 2011 | 2:01 pm

    …and just what does he do with HIS time? Silly troll!

  39. Betty Manousos@ Cut and Dry
    January 20, 2011 | 2:07 pm

    What a moron!

    You're awesome and a great blogger!
    Loved your post…well said!
    Thanks for stopping by my blog and leaving such a sweet comment!

    Have a great day!

    Big hugs!

  40. Geekin' Hard
    January 20, 2011 | 2:15 pm

    How come *I* never get any hate mail?!

  41. Jill
    January 20, 2011 | 2:20 pm

    That's the sign darling, YOU HAVE ARRIVED! GO you.

  42. Semi-Slacker Mom
    January 20, 2011 | 2:24 pm

    You know you've hit it big when you start getting hate mail.

    I linked to you yesterday, hope that's okay. You may get 2 more readers. ;)

  43. DCHY
    January 20, 2011 | 2:25 pm

    Then I am not famous…yet. I did get someone from “Boycott American Women” babbling nonsensically on my blog, but to get an e-mail like yours? I am not there yet. ;)

  44. Carri
    January 20, 2011 | 2:46 pm

    Oh, how cute! Mr. Boycott American Women is so fucking stupid he can't figure out that you AREN'T American!!
    Hey, asshole! I'm American! Come over to my site and post a comment. I'd love the traffic and I'm always looking for something new to write about! Hugs and kisses!

    Oh, and PS. It's http://mommyslittlemonsterblake.blogspot.com/

    See you soon!!

  45. Dianne_momstuff
    January 20, 2011 | 2:58 pm

    I love the way you handled this. Haters are an interest group. You are a perfect example of how to react to one. I found your blog from my facebook wall. I am glad we have connected. I am following your blog now and I look forward to your posts. Come and visit me at http://mom-stuffcommunity.blogspot.com/ and http://www.mom-stuff.com

  46. Kim
    January 20, 2011 | 2:59 pm

    I think Jill is right — you've arrived. (although the butt loads of followers and comments you get *should* have been a clue, as well) yeah for you!! ;)

  47. anSeL
    January 20, 2011 | 3:12 pm

    but he spend time in reading your blog and sending email to you. HuH!
    he just can't admit it he likes your blog!

  48. Mejis
    January 20, 2011 | 3:23 pm

    He emailed you? No fair! I always get the morons who leave nasty comments and are too chicken to leave their name.

  49. My name WAS Female, I shit you not!
    January 20, 2011 | 3:24 pm

    His problem is… HE NEEDS TO GET LAID!
    I shit you not!

  50. Heather
    January 20, 2011 | 3:24 pm

    What a loser, douchebag. (Him…not you.) What business of his is it how you spend your leisure time? Or furthermore how we spend our while reading your blog! Now I am insulted. The nerve!

  51. Diane
    January 20, 2011 | 3:36 pm

    You have people so jealous of your blogging success that they take the time to write you hate mail? You.Have.Arrived! Well done.

  52. Donna @ The House on the Corner
    January 20, 2011 | 3:42 pm

    You know it's a man because only a man would think his opinion was so important as to make you rethink your purpose in life….not that writing a blog is your SOLE purpose in life but I think anyone with your wit and writing skill is duty bound to share it with the world!!

  53. Anita @ GoingALittleCoastal
    January 20, 2011 | 3:42 pm

    Now see, men can be helpful if they really try…

  54. Liz
    January 20, 2011 | 3:51 pm

    We were having a garage sale once & we realized we had a bunch of stuff that was still nice, but not even worth our effort selling. So we set up a free section in the hopes of just getting rid of it all. So I posted it on craigslist in the free section, listed the items that were free, and said to come on by our garage sale & that they were outside. Some crazy person sent me a very long, horrible email about how I was the scum of the earth for trying to get my garage sale more internet time by putting it in the free section. Like I was trying to plug my garage sale. Seriously! And the worst that it took him, what, one second to click on it & see that there wasn't anything that he wanted. But it probably took him 10 minutes to send me the nasty email.

  55. Momma Jorje
    January 20, 2011 | 3:58 pm

    Did this guy not read the TITLE? Duh, this “fodder” is the entire POINT. Pft!

  56. Vanessa
    January 20, 2011 | 4:13 pm

    When I log onto my blog I LOOK for your posts! They are hilarious and make my day, every time! Well, almost every time, that rockin bod of yours, doesn't really make me feel good! Haha!

  57. Brandy Rose
    January 20, 2011 | 4:16 pm

    He's a troll. I've had them. Most all bloggers have. Its not just you he's sent that EXACT message to with possibly a few add ins. He has not even barely glanced at you blog. Its how trolls entertain themselves, starting shit. Ignore it!

  58. Ro
    January 20, 2011 | 4:18 pm

    Hey- Jealous.. no one sends me Hater Mail.

    You are so famous now.




  59. Rox
    January 20, 2011 | 4:23 pm

    Guys. I love how he took the time, maybe he really wanted to say he loved you but couldn't find the right words. Yeah that's it.

  60. Pearl
    January 20, 2011 | 4:39 pm

    FOR the He who sent you an email: SERIOUSLY?!! So what have you been doing with your time, aside from reading Sandra's blog then? GO and start doing something “productive”. Whatever that means for yah.

  61. Kristina P.
    January 20, 2011 | 4:48 pm

    Awesome. Maybe you can send him my way for a good laugh!

  62. Nicole
    January 20, 2011 | 4:52 pm

    I've said this before, but seriously, I don't get why people take time out of their day to be assholes. I really don't get it. I guess they are unhappy? Jealous? Have a small penis? I just don't know.

  63. Renee
    January 20, 2011 | 5:06 pm

    It's ironic that he was asking you if you had better things to do with your time. Hahaha! Love it.

  64. Jenny
    January 20, 2011 | 5:17 pm

    LOL Congrats! Clearly your 1000+ readers disagree with him. What I've never understood about people like that is- why bother to send an email or post a comment? If you don't like it, DON'T READ IT!

  65. meleah rebeccah
    January 20, 2011 | 5:22 pm

    Mr.What's-Your-Point is real asshat. And CLEARLY he has nothing better to do with HIS time.

    Congrats on becoming famous! I will never forget my first 'hate-email'!

  66. twelvedaysold
    January 20, 2011 | 5:31 pm

    Well stated.

  67. Pamela
    January 20, 2011 | 6:11 pm

    What a douche nozzle. But seriously if you didn't have such a great blog, he wouldn't even have bothered. Talk about having nothing better to do – sheesh!

  68. Linda Medrano
    January 20, 2011 | 6:16 pm

    What a jerk off. I'm glad you are famous though, and I'm a little jealous because I don't get any hate mail or even spam since I'm not famous. Oh well.

  69. Kristen
    January 20, 2011 | 6:34 pm

    yes you are definitely famous! What a dick…. I on the other hand love reading your blog, don't comment a lot but that's just due to pure laziness…..

  70. KittyCat
    January 20, 2011 | 7:04 pm

    What a total jackass. I hate ppl like that.
    this week i had some guy post on my blog and his name was men boycotting women. WTF really.
    where do these ppl come from?
    Cheese and rice.

    I love you : )

  71. diane rene
    January 20, 2011 | 7:09 pm


  72. Copyboy
    January 20, 2011 | 7:14 pm

    I agree, evil pettiness is the mother of invention…or is that necessity? Man, your non-life is way busier than my life. haha

  73. becca
    January 20, 2011 | 7:25 pm

    what a wonderfully perfect post

  74. Kimberly
    January 20, 2011 | 7:25 pm

    Boom. Suck on that.

  75. Jenners
    January 20, 2011 | 7:27 pm

    Nasty e-mails … the gift that keeps on giving blog fodder ideas!

  76. Krissy
    January 20, 2011 | 8:09 pm

    And now boycott boy just gave you more fuel for that great fire you had going. Ha! I'm so jealous that you are the target of so much love, because you know he just wanted to get your attention. :)

  77. Shell
    January 20, 2011 | 8:09 pm

    Congrats! :)

    Haters = arrival.

  78. ryoko861
    January 20, 2011 | 9:04 pm

    Pfffft, there's always some ass hat.
    Maybe his computer doesn't have a back button.

    I had a go of it with some locals in my area on a blog. They didn't like the fact that I “commented” on my eating experience at their eaterie.

    Ok, leave a comment, but then let it go. Or just GO! Like you said, at least they took time to comment.

  79. Megan (Best of Fates)
    January 20, 2011 | 9:48 pm

    Man, I wish people took the time out of their day to hate me – what an honor!

  80. Noelle
    January 20, 2011 | 9:53 pm

    It's like this…he thinks you're HOT, super HOT, and he's pretty sure he would never stand a chance if he were to just casually strike up a conversation.

    So instead he takes to insulting your blog…it's the only way he can comfortably communicate with his new found one true love.

    Didn't your mom ever tell you that the boys were mean to you because they like you?

  81. Ann
    January 20, 2011 | 10:14 pm

    oh that is just too funny. I'm kind of jealous though that you got such a cool email to blog about and I didn't. darn!

  82. Coffeypot
    January 20, 2011 | 10:21 pm

    So post the fuckers email so we can all thank him for putting you in your place. His ego would be boosted with the arrival of about a hundred support emails from us. The chicken-shit who didn't have the nuts to post on comments. I bet he is a deacon in the Westboro Baptist Church, too.

  83. Lisha @ DeLovely Life
    January 20, 2011 | 10:48 pm

    Ha! Douche…He is merely feeding the machine. Silly, silly man. How sweet of him to send you an email. I can practically feel the warm fuzzies. I also got a warm fuzzy on my comments yesterday. Some lame ass wants to “boycott american women” and decided to tell me about it. He's been going around. Do tell me if you got one of his comments, too. Or maybe that was him?!

  84. My Big Secret Blog :)
    January 20, 2011 | 11:06 pm

    I LOVE your attitude! You just made my day! THANK YOU!

  85. WhisperingWriter
    January 20, 2011 | 11:21 pm

    Love this. I've had e-mails like that and even a noter who told me that I needed my mouth washed out with soap because I shouldn't use foul language in my blog.

  86. Lin
    January 20, 2011 | 11:24 pm

    He's an idiot. I guess his point was to get your attention, which he did. Next time, don't give it to him. Just send us HIS email and we can all send him our love. ;)

  87. DB
    January 20, 2011 | 11:47 pm

    That's really weird. Methinks someone needs a life. [Him, not you. Possibly me.] People these days are strange.

    Is this one of those situations in which the boy has a crush on you so he pulls your hair and calls you names?

  88. Courtney
    January 20, 2011 | 11:54 pm


  89. vickilikesfrogs
    January 21, 2011 | 12:51 am

    (in chirpy cheerleader voice) Let your haters be your motivaters!

    God, don'tcha hate people who say shit like that??? Me, too!

    Seriously, though, what a douche burger.

  90. Sarahf
    January 21, 2011 | 12:58 am

    I don't get people who do that kind of stuff. What's the point? On the plus side, a great chance to use my new favourite insult “douche burger”. I got that from teh comment above. Good innit?

  91. Julianna
    January 21, 2011 | 2:14 am

    Yeah. I'm with you. I rally don't have anything better to do… More scratching butt pics of Wayne please. :)

  92. Valerie
    January 21, 2011 | 2:22 am

    Seriously, these are the losers who have nothing better to do than drink their “hateraide” and spew their toxic jive all over other people's blogs. My attitude – “If you don't like it? Don't freakin' read it – I'm not writing it for you, pal. I'm writing it for me.”

  93. Jeanie
    January 21, 2011 | 2:23 am

    I think he gave a sort of inspiration to some of us boring, uninspired bloggers everywhere….if we can't get comments or followers, at least we can maybe get hate mail.

  94. Snake
    January 21, 2011 | 2:24 am

    You've done a great thing Sandra . . . You've made this small, sad guy feel important . . . lol Probably his only shot . . . He's probably painting by numbers right now . . . Ciao baby!!

  95. Rebecca
    January 21, 2011 | 3:23 am

    You know you've hit it big when people take the time to send hate mail. Way To Go!

  96. Laoch of Chicago
    January 21, 2011 | 5:09 am

    Interesting, I guess I would somehow feel disquieted if I got hate mail, but I think you handled it quite gracefully.

  97. From Tracie
    January 21, 2011 | 6:03 am

    LMBO! This is awesome. You made hatemail into something good. Now I'm feeling a little sad that I didn't get a rude email. Humph.

  98. The Kooky Queen--Rachel
    January 21, 2011 | 6:08 am

    Hahaha, lol, lol, lol!!! Is he an idiot!? Does he not get the point of ANY blog!? There is none! It's all for the love of blather and friendship. :)

  99. Sarah
    January 21, 2011 | 1:11 pm

    oh, happy happy!

    I have a new love…it is you and your blog. This is hilarious. and I hope my follow will feed your fantastic narcissism because I love it.

  100. ModernMom
    January 21, 2011 | 2:43 pm

    It 's still a hit on the website right! That is something to celebrate:)

  101. Melodie
    January 21, 2011 | 4:18 pm

    You handled that perfectly ! What a sad,sad, fellow this must be to go through all that over a blog….I would ask him doesn't HE have anything better to do,lol!

  102. mandersblue
    January 21, 2011 | 5:20 pm

    first time visiting your site. saw a comment from you on loach's blog and had to come check you out as a fellow winnipegger. i'm pretty intimidated by your fame though… 100+ comments per post – that's like, 100 times more famous than me

  103. Cindy
    January 21, 2011 | 5:25 pm

    no DUH!

    I love it!


  104. Ginger
    January 21, 2011 | 5:56 pm

    What a douche bag (yay!! first time I found somebody deserving of the epitaph). I bet he has only three followers (fake google names created by himself!!). I bet he really wanted to ask 'How do you do it? Can you teach me pls? but all the bitterness inside started pouring out. poor guy!

  105. Holly Ruggiero
    January 21, 2011 | 6:13 pm

    People are absolutely amazing. I totally love your attitude and I going adopt it – or at least try!

  106. Ramblingon
    January 21, 2011 | 6:17 pm

    I really appreciated the visit and I have been reading your blogs in return. Thank you so much for commenting on mine.

  107. FreeFlying
    January 21, 2011 | 8:55 pm

    Ha! My favorite is that he asked everything in question form. Like you might very well write him back and say, “why, yes! It IS a bunch of babble. I'm not sure if babble is specifically my point or if it's simply to show the world how incredibly stupid I am. But thank you, sir, for putting it into words.”

  108. Lightning Bug's Butt
    January 21, 2011 | 9:17 pm

    I almost missed this post.

    You've got it just right: The hate posts are the ones MOST impressed with our blogs. They're just not sophisticated enough to express it healthfully.

  109. Lady Old Soul
    January 21, 2011 | 9:40 pm

    LMAO What a douchecanoe!! He obviously doesn't know his ass from a hole in the ground…his loss! =) I personally really love your blog, so much so that I've given you an award…here is the link to the post so you can claim your prize. =)


    Please keep it coming with the hilarity!! I really get a kick out of reading it! =)

  110. The Constant Complainer
    January 21, 2011 | 10:32 pm

    Sandra, I'm a first-time visitor to your site.

    I saw a comment you made on Kitty Kat's site and decided to click-through.

    You have a new fan in me. I dig your sarcastic humor!

  111. Mamarazzi
    January 21, 2011 | 10:53 pm

    LOVE this. you have much thicker skin than i do…i need to take a page from your book.

  112. Mrs. Tuna
    January 21, 2011 | 11:23 pm

    Can you spell S-T-A-L-K-E;R?

  113. BeckEye
    January 22, 2011 | 5:01 am

    It absolutely makes you famous. Ahhhh, I remember my first angry anonymous commenter like it was yesterday. And every one after that who told me to “get a life” or that I was a bitch…each one made me smile wider than the last.

  114. Impulsive Addict
    January 22, 2011 | 5:03 am

    What a douche bag. Seriously. I think I smell jealousy. I could be wrong. That happens a lot but why else would he send you a personal email?

    Ok…and 113 comments? Teach me. Please! My goal is 30. *sigh*

  115. Rhapsody B.
    January 22, 2011 | 3:43 pm


    Great entry.

    In this world at some point you will have some of the people liking you some of the time and all of the people disliking you all of the time. It is what it is, it is the nature of the beast so the best way is to accept as you have their choice to whatever, and continue living your life. T'is too shall pass.

    take care and keep blogging away.

  116. A Beer for the Shower
    January 22, 2011 | 3:48 pm

    Fuck him. The guy probably spends his nights dancing around in lingerie, and then whipping himself for enjoying it.

  117. purplume
    January 23, 2011 | 12:35 am

    Good for you. I love the name of your blog and your content is fun in an interesting, intelligent way.

  118. Deborah
    January 23, 2011 | 1:51 pm

    We are giving that slacker too much credit! Bah and wah to him (I'm assuming him).

    Rock on little girl. We all need some abs to aspire to. (well in my case, transpire to)

    then I'll be able to say, “touch these, go ahead”! heh

  119. QueenBee
    January 23, 2011 | 3:03 pm

    Yes put picture of your hubby scratching his butt and then see what his comment is. He is a hater, drinking kool-aid and don't even know the flava.

  120. becca
    January 23, 2011 | 6:16 pm
  121. ~ Darla ~
    January 23, 2011 | 9:15 pm

    Yep, I smell jealousy! Love you, Sandra.

  122. Making It Work Mom
    January 24, 2011 | 3:02 am

    I am so happy you have your first troll! Now you will be even more motivated to continue to write the bunch of mindless babble that makes us so happy.
    Continue on my friend!

  123. Danielle
    January 24, 2011 | 6:03 pm

    You said it perfectly! You are famous BTW!!!

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